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Scared of the “C” word

First post and replies | Last post by FOF101, 2 months ago

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I had a really hard time telling my high school daughter that I had breast cancer because we are all so scared of the “C” word. I knew she would freak out so I stayed really strong when I told her. I let her know I caught it early and that I was going to be ok. I think since I didn’t lose my hair it was easier because I looked the same. I did the genetic testing to make sure I did not have the BRCA gene and that took a weight off my shoulders. Although majority of breast cancers are not hereditary but they are spontaneous.I thought that was rea...

By FOF101 2 months ago

First post and replies | Last post by SharonT, 2 months ago

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Telling early worked better for me

First post and replies | Last post by KCSP4, 3 months ago

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First post and replies | Last post by KCSP4, 3 months ago

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I was open about it

First post and replies | Last post by Iamasurvivor, 3 months ago

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No rhyme or reason

First post and replies | Last post by Iamasurvivor, 3 months ago

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First post and replies | Last post by Iamasurvivor, 3 months ago

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I told my daughters everything

First post and replies | Last post by SharonT, 3 months ago

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My daughters get upset when they find out their father and I have withheld information from them, even things from when they were too little to understand. Maybe some children want to be shielded from adult issues, but mine never have. They have always been hurt or offended when they've heard about things we didn't tell them about, like family troubles and such. So I decided to tell my daughters, who are in their 20s, when I was worried that I had cancer, before I even knew that I did. I waited until there was only about one or two days left be...

By SharonT 3 months ago

Telling my boys

First post and replies | Last post by tpir, 4 months ago

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I had been sick for MONTHS, with no real diagnosis, so it was almost a relief breaking the news to my children. We finally had answers! My husband and I sat our three boys down (ages 8, 12 & 13) and told them the news. We told them that I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I had met with my treatment team at KU Med and had a general idea of what treatment would look like. Chemotherapy, surgery, then radiation was the initial treatment plan. If they had any questions and would like to talk to my oncologist, Dr. O'dea said we could set ...

By tpir 4 months ago

Opportunity to educate

First post and replies | Last post by SharonT, 4 months ago

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I answered every question I was asked about my cancer because it was an opportunity to educate. I think a lot of the people were seeking comfort, looking for information that could help them believe that this could never happen to them. Most people wanted to know if I had a family history or if I felt a lump. I don't have a family history, and I didn't feel a lump, so I felt like it was important to educate people that most cases of breast cancer are not genetic, and you can have breast cancer without being able to feel it in a self exam. Sever...

By SharonT 4 months ago

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